planning

so now i have 2 weddings to plan... and we want a lot of the same features, so the key is making them different enough that it doesn't seem like i copied her wedding. but our taste is completely different, so i think it'll be okay...

i'm looking for more of a country, relaxed feel, and she is much more traditional. extremely traditional, so it'll just be like a regular wedding. mine will be an event, a destination, a vacation, an entire day of fun and relaxation and games and food and family.

not that mine will be better than hers. it'll just be better for me. hers will be better for her. and i will not purposely save the good stuff for me.